A month ago I wrote about how hard it is to move a teenage volleyball player from one national federation to another. Multiple IDs, proof of residency, a birth certificate, a physical done to Portugal’s standard, and two federations that have to talk to each other before Mia can step on a court for a match.

This is the update. Part of it went faster than anything else in this whole process. Part of it is still a waiting game.

Before Portugal could finish her registration, Mia needed to exist in the FIVB system. The FIVB is the international volleyball federation, and every player who moves between countries has to be registered there by their federation of origin. For Mia, that is USA Volleyball, even though she has only played two of her club seasons under them.

Here is what I did not know going in. There is no form for this. No portal for parents. I found USA Volleyball’s contact on the FIVB’s own directory of national federations, scrolling past Uruguay to get to it, and wrote an email.

That email had to include four things. A photo of Mia in JPEG format, a copy of her passport, her place of birth, and the email address she wanted tied to her FIVB profile. Before I sent it, I did some digging on the FIVB’s own documentation and found out why place of birth matters. If a player was born somewhere other than the country of the federation registering her, the FIVB can ask for her volleyball history to decide which federation she actually belongs to. For a military kid who has played in Israel, Bahrain, Italy, and now Portugal, that is not a hypothetical.

I sent the email on a Thursday evening, Lisbon time.

Twenty minutes later, we had her FIVB number.

Twenty minutes. After weeks of collecting documents for the Portuguese side, the American side turned around the international piece faster than it took me to make dinner. I want to give real credit to whoever was sitting on the other end of that inbox at USA Volleyball. They did not ask for anything twice. They just did it.

I have been thinking about why the two experiences felt so different. Some of it is that we gave them exactly what they needed in the first message, no back and forth. Some of it is that USA Volleyball processes hundreds of these every year for American players heading to clubs overseas, so they have done it before. Portugal is doing this for one fourteen year old they have never met, with documents from a family that just arrived.

But the FIVB number is not the finish line. It is the key that lets the rest of the process move. Now the transfer itself has to happen inside the FIVB system, and that has to be started by her new club or the Portuguese federation, then signed by the club, by Mia, and by both federations before it is active. Every one of those steps is a person somewhere who has to log in and click.

And the clock that actually matters is not a federation clock. It is her team’s schedule. Mia has been training with her new team. She knows the girls. She knows the system. What she has not done yet is play a federation match, and that first match is the only real proof that everything got signed, filed, and approved in time.

So here is where we are. Paperwork submitted. Physical done. FIVB number in hand. Transfer in motion. First game on the calendar.

For families about to do this, my advice from round two is short. Find your federation’s FIVB contact early, and put everything they could possibly need in the first email. The fastest part of our process was the part where we left nothing for anyone to ask about.

Whether we made it in time, I will find out the same way Mia does. When she either takes the court with her team, or she does not.

I will let you know.